Source: The Ape that Thought It Was a Peacock: Does Evolutionary Psychology Exaggerate Human Sex Differences? (2013), p. 144
“Films of the mating behavior of most other species — a staple of public television of America — demonstrate that the female chooses.”
Males pursue, show off, brawl, scuffle, and make general fools of themselves for love. A major failing of most feminist ideology is its dumb, ungenerous stereotyping of men as tyrants and abusers, when in fact — as I know full well from my own mortifying lesbian experience — men are tormented by women’s flirtatiousness and hemming and hawing, their manipulations and changeableness, their humiliating rejections. Cock teasing is a universal reality. It is part of women’s merciless testing and cold-eyed comparison shopping for potential mates. Men will do anything to win the favor of women.
Source: Vamps and Tramps (1994), "No Law in the Arena: A Pagan Theory of Sexuality", p. 35
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The Ape that Thought It Was a Peacock: Does Evolutionary Psychology Exaggerate Human Sex Differences? (2013)

“Television, as the most "public" of media, has its limits.”
Source: The Cultural Contradictions of Capitalism (1976), Chapter 2, The Disjunction of Cultural Discourse, p. 108

“Throughout history, females have picked providers for mates. Males pick anything.”
Attributed in 3,500 Good Quotes for Speakers (1985) edited by Gerald F. Lieberman, p. 114
1980s

“For the female of the species is more deadly than the male.”
The Female of the Species, Stanza 1 (1911).
Other works
Variant: The glory of the garden lies in more than meets the eye.

“What if they were allowed to choose their own mate? And chose wrong?”
Source: The Giver

Venom and Eternity (1951), Danielle's Monologue