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Context: A man has two primary drives in early adulthood: one toward power, success, and accomplishment; the other toward love, companionship, and sex. Half of life then was out of order. To go before them was to stand up as a man and admit that I was only half a man.
                                    
 
        
     
                             
                             
                             
                             
                             
                             
                             
                            