
“The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.”
Stages on Life's Way, 1845 (Hong) p. 124
1840s, Stages on Life's Way (1845)
Context: I was brought up in the Christian religion, and although I can scarcely sanction all the improper attempts to gain the emancipation of woman, all paganlike reminiscences also seem foolish to me. My brief and simple opinion is that woman is certainly as good as man-period. Any more discursive elaboration of the difference between the sexes or deliberation on which sex is superior is an idle intellectual occupation for loafers and bachelors.
“The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.”
Virginibus Puerisque, Ch. 2.
Virginibus Puerisque and Other Papers (1881)
Context: Times are changed with him who marries; there are no more by-path meadows, where you may innocently linger, but the road lies long and straight and dusty to the grave. Idleness, which is often becoming and even wise in the bachelor, begins to wear a different aspect when you have a wife to support.
Source: 1930s, Sex and Temperament in Three Primitive Societies (1935), p. 48
“An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex.”
As quoted without citation in Discovering Evolutionary Ecology: Bringing Together Ecology And Evolution (2006) by Peter J. Mayhew, p. 24
Attributed
Volume 2, Ch. 23
Fiction, The Book of the Short Sun (1999–2001)
"A Personal Letter, With a Request for a Reply", January 1937
Imaginative Sex, Masquerade, 1997 New York, ISBN 1-56333-561-1, p. 13
Source: The Ape that Thought It Was a Peacock: Does Evolutionary Psychology Exaggerate Human Sex Differences? (2013), p. 139
Also found in "Quotations According to Woody Allen" http://books.google.com/books?id=kd41AQAAIAAJ&q=%22quotations+according%22#search_anchor from the New York Times, 1 December 1975.
““It’s ok to embrace your sex appeal
And still be an intellectual woman””
Source: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/news/a25583/mayra-veronica-latinas-should-be-sexy/