“In real life, help is given out of friendship, or it is not valued; it is received from the hand of friendship, or it is resented.”

—  Robert Louis Stevenson , book Across the Plains

Source: Across the Plains (1892), Ch. IX, Beggars.
Context: We should wipe two words from our vocabulary: gratitude and charity. In real life, help is given out of friendship, or it is not valued; it is received from the hand of friendship, or it is resented.

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Scottish novelist, poet, essayist, and travel writer 1850–1894

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