“You marry to be worthy of a gift, and want to say so out loud, but without shouting.”

— John Leonard

"Next" (p. 5)
Private Lives in the Imperial City (1979)
Context: You marry to be worthy of a gift, and want to say so out loud, but without shouting. One doesn't shout a prayer. Marriage is one of the few ceremonies left to us about which it is impossible — or at least self-demeaning — to be cynical.

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American critic, writer, and commentator 1939–2008

Titon Rahmawan

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“Dream up the kind of world you want to live in. Dream out loud.”

Bono (1960) Irish rock musician, singer of U2

““Come out,” Sukarno cried into the vegetation. “I have a gun!”
“Mr. Sukarno,” said Iago, without looking at him. “You are, if you don’t mind me saying, too fond of shouting ‘I have a gun.’””

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“I have so much to say to you. I want to begin at the beginning, because that is what you deserve. I want to tell you everything, without leaving out a single detail. But where is the beginning? And what is everything?”

Jonathan Safran Foer book Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close

Source: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close

“We’re in a time when film is so loud and the audience is looking for shocking. It’s hard to convince people that there is an audience out there that wants quiet stories.”

Regina King (1971) actress

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