“The sorrow for the dead is the only sorrow from which we refuse to be divorced. Every other wound we seek to heal — every other affliction to forget: but this wound we consider it a duty to keep open — this affliction we cherish and brood over in solitude.”

— Washington Irving , book The Sketch Book of Geoffrey Crayon, Gent.

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The Sketch Book of Geoffrey Crayon (1819–1820)

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