“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
The Complete Neurotic's Notebook (1981), Marriage
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Un Art de Vivre (The Art of Living) (1939), The Art of Marriage

“I'll never fall in love again… it's like having two souls at the same time.”
Source: The General in His Labyrinth

This appears not to be a Kerouac quote. It has not been found in any of Kerouac's published work.
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“Success doesn’t always bring growth, but personal growth will always add to our success.”
Book Sometimes you win Sometimes you Learn

“Love personalizes all that it loves. Only by personalizing it can we fall in love with an idea.”
The Tragic Sense of Life (1913), VII : Love, Suffering, Pity
Context: Consciousness (conscientia) is participated knowledge, is co-feeling, and co-feeling is com-passion. Love personalizes all that it loves. Only by personalizing it can we fall in love with an idea. And when love is so great and so vital, so strong and so overflowing, that it loves everything, then it personalizes everything and discovers that the total All, that the Universe, is also a person possessing a Consciousness, a Consciousness which in its turn suffers, pities, and loves, and therefore is consciousness. And this Consciousness of the Universe, which a love, personalizing all that it loves, discovers, is what we call God.

“Yet falling in love is not the same as being able to love.”
Source: Selected Poems Selected Poems