Source: My Turn (1989), Ch. 4 : First Lady, Dragon Lady
Context: I was not the power behind the throne.
Did I ever give Ronnie advice? You bet I did. I’m the one who knows him best, and I was the only person in the White House who had absolutely no agenda of her own — except helping him.
And so I make no apologies for telling him what I thought. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you have no right to express your opinions. For eight years I was sleeping with the president, and if that doesn’t give you special access, I don’t know what does!
So yes, I gave Ronnie my best advice — whenever he asked for it, and sometimes when he didn’t. But that doesn’t mean he always took it. Ronald Reagan has a mind of his own.
“Only help him who is not an idler.”
Aphorisms
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influential spiritual teacher, Armenian philosopher, compos… 1866–1949Related quotes
“The most generous person is the one who offers help to those who do not expect him to help.”
Majlisi, Bihārul Anwār, vol.78, p. 121
General Quotes
“God helps only those who are prepared and determined to help themselves.”
Speech in Weimar http://der-fuehrer.org/reden/english/38-11-06.htm, 6 November 1938
1930s
“When help is needed it is only God, Who has the real power to help, and He provides it.”
Eid and Friday Sermons
Source: Total Trust and Dependence on Allah https://www.alislam.org/friday-sermon/2014-11-28.html, Friday Sermon November 28th, 2014
al-Shahid al-Tustari, Ihqaqul-Haq, vol.12, p. 432
Religious Wisdom
“You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him to find it within himself.”
As quoted in How to Win Friends and Influence People (1935) by Dale Carnegie, p. 117; also paraphrased as "You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him to find it for himself." Attributions are found as early as 1882.
Attributed
Source: Google Books link https://books.google.com/books?id=h70_AQAAMAAJ&pg=PA476&dq=You+cannot+teach+a+man+anything;+you+can+only+help+him+find+it+within+himself&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0CB0Q6AEwAGoVChMI39Gmss_gyAIVRNRjCh1Q2wGN#v=onepage&q=%22You%20cannot%20teach%22&f=false
“He only has the right to criticize who has the heart to help.”
Original quote from William Penn (1693): They have a Right to censure, that have a Heart to help: The rest is Cruelty, not Justice.
Misattributed
“Of what help is anyone who can only be approached with the right words?”
Haven (1951)