“I really am interested but I find it hard to make the proper helpful noises. I'm terrible inadequate when it comes to sympathy. I feel things but I can't express them in words.”

Wood, Christopher. "Terrible Hard", Says Alice. London: Constable. 1970. (chapter 13)

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