“The principal merit which should be required in our friends, is virtue : It is that which assures us they are capable of friendship, and worthy of it : expect nothing from your connections, when they have not this foundation.”

—  Anne-Thérèse de Marguenat de Courcelles, marquise de Lambert

Source: An Essay on Friendship, 1732, pp. 54-55

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