“We are getting to be of an age when it is difficult to grow new friends; we haven't the energy, the time to cultivate; each one gone is a permanent impoverishment.”

—  John Leonard

"On Being Stupid" (p. 44)
Private Lives in the Imperial City (1979)

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American critic, writer, and commentator 1939–2008

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