“Very often when I am introduced to women, I think, "What is she really like behind the disguise which she wears?" And very often I discover that she is pleasant enough, and probably would expand and glow if she received enough affection.”

— Robertson Davies , book The Diary of Samuel Marchbanks

The Diary of Samuel Marchbanks (1947)

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