“How can we expect others to keep our secrets if we cannot keep them ourselves?”

—  François de La Rochefoucauld

Comment prétendons-nous qu'un autre puisse garder notre secret, si nous ne pouvons le garder nous-mêmes?
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French author of maxims and memoirs 1613–1680

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