“Abject flattery and indiscriminate assentation degrade, as much as indiscriminate contradiction and noisy debate disgust. But a modest assertion of one’s own opinion, and a complaisant acquiescence in other people’s, preserve dignity.”

10 August 1749
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

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British statesman and man of letters 1694–1773

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