“Human nature being what it is, or at least conditioning being what it is I was so insecure. I always had to watch out for other women. She leans forward and laughs "Because he was so damned good looking, you know. When you are not the wife it's great but when you are…"”

— Protima Bedi

On her marital relationship with Kabir Bedi which did not work out, quoted in "I have been a hippie all my life".

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Indian model and dancer 1948–1998

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