“Seek to mingle gentleness in all your rebukes; bear with the infirmities of others; make allowance for constitutional frailties; never say harsh things, if kind things will do as well.”

—  John Ross Macduff

Source: Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), P. 256.

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Scottish religious writer 1818–1895

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