“Sincerity is an openness of heart; we find it in very few people; what we usually see is only an artful dissimulation to win the confidence of others.”

—  François de La Rochefoucauld , book Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims

La sincérité est une ouverture de coeur. On la trouve en fort peu de gens; et celle que l'on voit d'ordinaire n'est qu'une fine dissimulation pour attirer la confiance des autres.
Maxim 62.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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La sincérité est une ouverture de coeur. On la trouve en fort peu de gens; et celle que l'on voit d'ordinaire n'est qu'une fine dissimulation pour attirer la confiance des autres.

Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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