“There are some occasions in which a man must tell half his secret, in order to conceal the rest; but there is seldom one in which a man should tell all. Great skill is necessary to know how far to go, and where to stop.”

—  Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield

15 January 1753
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

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