“If a man dies of cancer in fear and despair, then cry for his pain and celebrate his life. The other man, who fought like hell and laughed in the end, but also died, may have had an easier time in his final months, but took his leave with no more humanity.”

—  Stephen Jay Gould

Source: Full House (1996), p. 47

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American evolutionary biologist 1941–2002

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