“pleasure wouldn’t exist without the sharp bite of pain. Even the brief flash of orgasm is too intense to be absolutely pleasurable”

— Alice Borchardt , book The Silver Wolf

have you ever seen anyone who could take anything from me against my will, ever, anywhere, anytime?
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American fiction writer 1939–2007

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