“Careful as we may be with our sons,
We cannot be certain they will not turn bandits and thieves.
We would all bring up our daughters to be ladies,
But who can say that they will not end up in courtesans' quarters?”

—  Wang Chi-chen

Source: Dream of the Red Chamber (1958), p. 14

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