“Life isn’t like the movies. People don’t change overnight. people don’t go from arrogant and self-righteous to ashamed and remorseful. They don’t suddenly give in when they’ve spent years taking out. No doesn’t magically become a Yes.”

—  Randa Abdel-Fattah

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contemporary Australian writer of novels for young adults 1979

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