“She wanted to be herself again, to recover all that she had been obliged to give up in half a century of servitude that had doubtless made her happy but which, once her husband was dead, did not leave her even the vestiges of her identity.”

—  Gabriel García Márquez , book Love in the Time of Cholera

Source: Love in the Time of Cholera

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