“Teach her that the idea of 'gender roles' is absolute nonsense. Do not ever tell her that she should or should not do something because she is a girl.
'Because you are a girl' is never reason for anything.
Ever.”

—  Chi­ma­man­da Ngo­zi Adi­chie

Source: Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions

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