“But I think she would have been happy with Fabrice,' I said. 'He was the great love of her life, you know.'
Oh, dulling,' said my mother, sadly. 'One always thinks that. Every, every time.”

—  Nancy Mitford

Source: The Pursuit of Love & Love in a Cold Climate

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