“… only the victims and survivors can truly comprehend the awfulness of that time and place; the rest of us live on the other side of the fence, staring through from our own comfortable place, trying in our own clumsy ways to make sense of it all.”

—  John Boyne

Source: The Boy in the Striped Pajamas

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Irish novelist, author of children's and youth fiction 1971

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