
“Do not choose for your wife any woman you would not choose for a friend if she were a man.”
Source: Silent in the Grave
“Do not choose for your wife any woman you would not choose for a friend if she were a man.”
(from vol 2, letter 13: 29 Nov 1778, to Mr S___ in Madras).
As quoted in Anecdotes of Painting in England (1762-1771) by Horace Walpole often credited as being the origin of the phrase "warts and all".
Variant: Paint me as I am. If you leave out the scars and wrinkles, I will not pay you a shilling.
Journal of Discourses 8:140 (August 5, 1860)
1860s