“You can't help what you feel, but you can help how you behave”

“My dad always says, some people will treat you badly and you can't help that. But how you handle it and how it makes you feel, that's up to you.”

Elise Broach (1963) American writer

“Cause I can't help it if you look like an angel;
Can't help it if I wanna kiss you in the rain, so…
Come feel this magic I've been feelin' since I met you,
Can't help it if there's no one else.”

Taylor Swift (1989) American singer-songwriter

“To help and guide someone, you have to rise above their feelings or emotions. Otherwise, you can't help if you want to stay at the same level as them.”

Mwanandeke Kindembo (1996) Congolese author

“You feel alive to the degree that you feel you can help others. ”

John Travolta (1954) American actor, dancer and singer

“You can't control everything. You can't control how someone feels about you. Or what makes them tick. You can only control how you react, how you act, how you think and feel.”

Maya Banks (1964) Author

“It is what you read when you don't have to that determines what you will be when you can't help it.”

Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish writer and poet

“…. there is a difference between hearing and listening. You can't always help what you hear. But you can control what holds your interest, what you choose to dwell on.”

Brandon Mull (1974) American fiction writer

“For sometimes you can't help but crave some ruin in what you love.”

Chang-rae Lee (1965) Novelist

“I just don't know," I said, my voice sounding bumby, not like mine, "how do you help someone who doesn't want your help. What do you do when you can't do anything?”

Sarah Dessen Lock and Key