“Loyalty to a side, he said, had been instilled in him by his southern mother, but he now thought you had to be loyal to all sides, to the truth as you saw it, which, when you came down to it, meant being loyal to yourself.”

—  Mary McCarthy, book A Charmed Life

Warren in Ch. 2, pp. 535–536
A Charmed Life (1955)

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