“What most of us present to the world isn’t necessarily our true self: It’s a combination of years of bad habits and fear-based behavior.”

—  Neil Strauss

Rules of the Game: The Style Diaries (2007)
Context: What most of us present to the world isn’t necessarily our true self: It’s a combination of years of bad habits and fear-based behavior. Our real self lies buried underneath all the insecurities and inhibitions. So rather than just being yourself, focus on discovering and permanently bringing to the surface your best self.

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