“That man is good who does good to others; if he suffers on account of the good he does, he is very good”
Aphorism 44
Les Caractères (1688), Du mérite personnel
Context: That man is good who does good to others; if he suffers on account of the good he does, he is very good; if he suffers at the hands of those to whom he has done good, then his goodness is so great that it could be enhanced only by greater sufferings; and if he should die at their hands, his virtue can go no further: it is heroic, it is perfect.
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Jean de La Bruyère65
17th-century French writer and philosopher 1645–1696Related quotes
Clive Staples Lewis book Mere Christianity
Book II, Chapter 5, "The Practical Conclusion"
Mere Christianity (1952)
“A person who has no conscience, no goodness, does not suffer.”
Khaled Hosseini book The Kite Runner
Variant: A man who has no conscience, no goodness, does not suffer.
Source: The Kite Runner
Muhammad (570–632) Arabian religious leader and the founder of Islam
Riyadh-as-Saliheen by Imam Al-Nawawi, volume 3, hadith number 428
Sunni Hadith
“To see others suffer does one good, to make others suffer even more”
Friedrich Nietzsche book On the Genealogy of Morality
Essay 2, Section 6
On the Genealogy of Morality (1887)
Context: To see others suffer does one good, to make others suffer even more: this is a hard saying but an ancient, mighty, human, all-too-human principle which even the apes might subscribe; for it has been said that in devising bizarre cruelties they anticipate man and are, as it were his "prelude."
Robert Graves (1895–1985) English poet and novelist
Quoted in The Observer [London] (6 December 1964).
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