“When I remember my family, I always remember their backs. They were always indignantly leaving places. That’s the way I remember them, heading for an exit.”

—  John Cheever

Quoted by Susan Cheever, Home before Dark Houghton Mifflin (1984).

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American novelist and short story writer 1912–1982

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