“Allow a friend to believe in a bogus prospectus or a false promise and you cease, after a short while, to be a friend at all.”

— Christopher Hitchens, Letters to a Young Contrarian

Source: Letters to a Young Contrarian

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British American author and journalist 1949–2011

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