“We ourselve are the authors of almost all our woes and griefs, of which we so unreasonably complain.”
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Giacomo Casanova 55
Italian adventurer and author from the Republic of Venice 1725–1798Related quotes

“The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves.”
Source: Oedipus Rex, Line 1184, Second Messenger; one commonly quoted translation is, "The keenest sorrow is to recognize ourselves as the sole cause of all our adversities".

Endurance, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).
Source: Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), P. 557.

Was wir Trauer nennen, ist vielleicht nicht sowohl der Schmerz über die Unmöglichkeit, unsere Toten ins Leben kehren zu sehen, als darüber, dies gar nicht wünschen zu können.
http://books.google.com/books?id=q4UdAAAAMAAJ&q=%22was+wir+Trauer+nennen+ist+vielleicht+nicht+sowohl+der+Schmerz+%C3%BCber+die+Unm%C3%B6glichkeit+unsere+Toten+ins+Leben+kehren+zu+sehen+als+dar%C3%BCber+dies+gar+nicht+w%C3%BCnschen+zu+k%C3%B6nnen%22&pg=PA562#v=onepage
Source: The Magic Mountain (1924), Ch. 7

“Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”
Source: Shadow of the Giant

Marginalia http://www.easylit.com/poe/comtext/prose/margin.shtml (November 1844)