“The decisions I made after that moment were not the ones she would have made. They were the choices of a changed person, a new self.
You could call this selfhood many things. Transformation. Metamorphosis. Falsity. Betrayal.
I call it an education.”

—  Tara Westover, book Educated

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Source: Educated (2018), Chapter 40, “Educated” (p. 329)

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