“If…it be a thing external that causes thy grief, know, that it is not that properly that doth cause it, but thine own conceit and opinion concerning the thing: which thou mayest rid thyself of, when thou wilt.”
VIII, 45
Meditations (c. 121–180 AD), Book VIII
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