“All children have to be deceived if they are to grow up without trauma.”
Kazuo Ishiguro book Never Let Me Go
Source: Never Let Me Go
Source: Peter and Wendy (1911), Ch. 1
Context: All children, except one, grow up. They soon know that they will grow up, and the way Wendy knew was this. One day when she was two years old she was playing in a garden, and she plucked another flower and ran with it to her mother. I suppose she must have looked rather delightful, for Mrs. Darling put her hand to her heart and cried, "Oh, why can't you remain like this for ever!" This was all that passed between them on the subject, but henceforth Wendy knew that she must grow up. You always know after you are two. Two is the beginning of the end.
“All children have to be deceived if they are to grow up without trauma.”
Kazuo Ishiguro book Never Let Me Go
Source: Never Let Me Go
Sarah Bakewell book How to Live
describing Montaigne’s view, p. 57.
How to Live, or, A Life of Montaigne in one Question and Twenty Attempts at an Answer (2010)
George Salmon (1819–1904) mathematician and Anglican theologian
The Infallibility of the Church (London: John Murray, 1888; 4th ed. 1914), p. 111 https://archive.org/stream/a607385500salmuoft#page/n143/mode/2up.
“Happy children do not seem to grow up to be writers.”
Piers Anthony (1934) English-American writer in the science fiction and fantasy genres
“This was the ghetto: where children grow down instead of up.”
Jerry Spinelli (1941) American children's writer
“We would have broken up except for the children. Who were the children? Well, she and I were.”
Mort Sahl (1927–2021) American comedian and actor
Relationships
Robert De Niro (1943) American actor, director and producer
2011 Golden Globe Awards. CNN http://www.cnn.com/2011/SHOWBIZ/celebrity.news.gossip/01/16/golden.globes/, January 16, 2011.