
“A lot of spiritual gains come through pain, hurt, struggle, confusion and disappointment.”
Too Busy Not to Pray (2008, InterVarsity Press)
Vorkosigan Saga, Borders of Infinity (1989)
Context: The loonies who sought a glorious death in battle found it very early on. This rapidly cleared the chain of command of the accumulated fools. The survivors were those who learned to fight dirty, and live, and fight another day, and win, and win, and win, and for whom nothing, not comfort, or security, not family or friends or their immortal souls, was more important than winning. Dead men are losers by definition. Survival and victory. They weren't supermen, or immune to pain. They sweated in confusion and darkness. And … they won.
“A lot of spiritual gains come through pain, hurt, struggle, confusion and disappointment.”
Too Busy Not to Pray (2008, InterVarsity Press)
“There is darkness in light, there is pain in joy, and there are thorns on the rose.”
“The light is too painful for someone who wants to remain in darkness.”
Source: The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
As quoted in Nightmares in Red, White and Blue: The Evolution of the American Horror Film (2004) by Joseph Maddrey, p. 160
Context: Being in darkness and confusion is interesting to me. But behind it you can rise out of that and see things the way the really are. That there is some sort of truth to the whole thing, if you could just get to that point where you could see it, and live it, and feel it... I think it is a long, long, way off. In the meantime there's suffering and darkness and confusion and absurdities, and it's people kind of going in circles. It's fantastic. It's like a strange carnival: it's a lot of fun, but it's a lot of pain.
Pouf Positive
Untold Decades: Seven Comedies of Gay Romance (1988)
“I'll take your part
When darkness comes
And pain is all around.”
Bridge over Troubled Water
Song lyrics, Bridge over Troubled Water (1970)