“If I had married a woman intelligent enough to guide me, to rule me without my feeling that I was ruled, I should have taken good care of my money, I should have had children, and I should not be, as now I am, alone in the world and possessing nothing.”

History of My Life (trans. Trask 1967), 1997 reprint, v. 8, chapter 4, p. 94
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