“The sight of a wedding always has a disturbing effect on young girls; at such moments a mysterious sense of solidarity with their own sex takes possession of them.”

—  Stefan Zweig, book Beware of Pity

Beware of Pity (1939)

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Austrian writer 1881–1942

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