“No man has a home unless he is master of a place where he must please no one—a place where he can go and lock the door behind him.”

— Gene Wolfe , book Storeys from the Old Hotel

"Slaves of Silver", Galaxy, 1971, Reprinted in Gene Wolfe, Storeys from the Old Hotel (1988)
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American science fiction and fantasy writer 1931–2019

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