“The fourth way to get a boy to like you is to be yourself. Now, I am contractually obligated as an adult to give that advice, even though it doesn't work. But yeah, be yourself, even though no one has any idea what it means to be yourself. Like whose self would I otherwise be being?”

— John Green

How to Make Guys Like You http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFiApf_m4H0
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American author and vlogger 1977

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