“History is written by the victors, but it's victims who write the memoirs.”
Carol Tavris (1944) American psychologist
Source: Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts
Source: Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
“History is written by the victors, but it's victims who write the memoirs.”
Carol Tavris (1944) American psychologist
Source: Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts
“Anyone who believes you can't change history has never tried to write his memoirs.”
David Ben-Gurion (1886–1973) Israeli politician, Zionist leader, prime minister of Israel
Attributed to Ben-Gurion in A Call to Action : The Handbook to Unite and Ignite America's Betrayed and Imperiled Public (2004) by A. T. Theodore, p. 6, but earlier published as a saying of unknown authorship in Uncommon Sense : The World's Fullest Compendium of Wisdom (1987) by Joseph Telushkin, p. 204
Disputed
“Death, death. Now I won't be able to write my beautiful memoirs.”
Joachim von Ribbentrop (1893–1946) German general
To Dr. G. M. Gilbert, after receiving the death sentence. Quoted in "Nuremberg Diary" - by G. M. Gilbert - History - 1995
Napoleon I of France (1769–1821) French general, First Consul and later Emperor of the French
On board H.M.S. Bellerophon (August 1815)
“Someday," Magnus said, looking at the crumpled royal person at his feet, "I must write my memoirs.”
Cassandra Clare (1973) American author
Source: The Runaway Queen
Gore Vidal (1925–2012) American writer
Preface http://www.threepennyreview.com/samples/vidal_su95.html <br class="br">1990s, The City and the Pillar and Seven Early Stories (1995)
Meena Kandasamy (1984) Indian poet
On her book When I Hit You in “Meena Kandasamy: ‘If I was going to write my life story, I would condense that marriage to a footnote’” https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/nov/25/meena-kandasamy-interview-exquisite-cadavers in The Guardian (2019 Nov 25)
John F. Kennedy (1917–1963) 35th president of the United States of America
Quoted in A Thousand Days: John F. Kennedy in the White House, Arthur Schlesinger (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1965), page 1017. http://www.jfklibrary.org/Research/Research-Aids/Ready-Reference/JFK-Quotations.aspx According to a footnote in Schlesinger's manuscript (1st draft, page 1378), this was stated on February 13, 1961. <br class="br">Attributed
Irene Dunne (1898–1990) American actress
Everyone Loved Irene, by William Frye http://www.irenedunnesite.com/press/vanity-fair-march-2004/ Vanity Fair, 2004]