“It is easy to be beautiful; it is difficult to appear so.
I admire you, beloved, for the trap you've set. It's like a final chapter no one reads because the plot is over.”

— Frank O'Hara , book Meditations in an Emergency (book)

Source: Meditations in an Emergency

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American poet, art critic and writer 1926–1966

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