“When one evaluates the best possible choice, we need to assess how the decision will affect others, including family, associates in the workplace and friends. Sometimes others outweigh the value of a choice that benefits our self-interest the most.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2007
“Confidence is a whisper, decisiveness is a calm tone, arrogance is a scream, and aggression is a buddy nose; one’s demeanor will describe the scene.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1979
“If you do not have knowledge or experience of what’s in the box, then you can’t think out-of-the-box; one cannot consider an alteration or alternative without knowledge of the subject or profession.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1982
“The environment around us is constantly changing, including innovations, friends, employment and moving to a different location; those who accept and excel at adaptation have smoother transitions, while others struggle.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2016
“For the most part, we are the determinate factor for the consequences of our life. The belief others should add importance and statute to our life is infantile and a sign of weakness. The strong create meaning and purpose for themselves.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2009
“One changes their beliefs numerous times over the course of a lifetime; even those they defended and supported for years.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2007
“Your conscience is the final arbiter of whether you have been right or wrong.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2003
“One should accept who they are or make changes to meet their expectations, instead of trying to be what they are not.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2000
“When you first loved and the feeling was returned, you thought it would last forever; but it ended and you acquired knowledge of one of life’s significant lessons; the next time you loved, you did so with caution.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2001
“Physical and health adversity is the most difficult type as pain and torment is continuous without an anticipated endpoint; all other types can have an eventual resolution but the ill, endure the mental stress every day.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2000
“In order to a have purpose in life, one must first discover reasons to live; once discovered, life shall have a definitive purpose.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2000
“She awakened your soul, but the soft whispers of wisdom led elsewhere. The perfect love, a true connection at a time not willing to wait.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1986
“Many have cried a thousand nights of bitter anguish without tears. And the tormented betrayal soars at twilight.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1996
“Adversity presents itself in various forms from mild to the intensive extreme. Therefore, each form necessitates a different approach that matches or exceeds the intensity in the moment.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1989
“We grow older more quickly by not chasing our passionate desires; passion helps one to feel alive.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2019
“Everyone must learn to live and survive alone, because at some point you will be; we grow stronger without relying on others to subsist.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2005
“Life and those who rear us teach lessons that break us. How we reassemble the broken pieces defines what we become.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1974
“Love is like a boxing match; at the start everyone’s looking and feeling good; halfway through, there are swollen faces and bruises; at the end both sides require stitches.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2015
“Those in love with someone who does not treat them special has endured countless hours of sorrow and despair.”Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1988