“Never reveal your wounds.They will all believe your weaker. They will take advantage of you.When they see how scarred you are.Then you will have no choice.But to fight.And then they will feel the wrath of a warrior.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1994
“If you are constantly in pain; seek out love; you will find the pain has been cut in half.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1990
“While there is no definitive formula for success and winning, there exists a deliberative mindset, confidence and emotional strength. For one must believe they are a champion before they can become one.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2015
“There’s a distinct difference between confidence and boasting arrogance; when a problem hits a patch of difficult, the arrogant disappear but the confident remains in the fight.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2015
“The humble rarely brag about accomplishments because they are typically significant, and their mannerism is one of confidence; but those with low self-esteem have developed a character of conceit and deception. You’re thinking of one now.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1982
“The ignorant and blind must always be guided or led; the blind have no choice but the ignorant who are content with their deficient knowledge, eventually become blind.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2016
“A single thought of her reminds me what it's like to feel alive and once again to have deep meaning in my life; A simple vision of her smile makes me feel special.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2020
“There’s nothing more arduous than traversing a lifelong struggle with the betrayal of the person you love, who expects to reach a compromise. Negotiation under these circumstances requires one to forfeit their dignity which can never be salvaged.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1987
“One who habitually jumps to conclusions to impress others with their knowledge, is offering opinions without reasoned judgment and wisdom.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2016
“As we grow older our sense of compassion becomes refined and matures; for we’ve received compassion for a lifetime of mistakes and mishaps.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2004
“Most psychologists agree at least some of our analytical ability is innate; however, most also agree common sense is not innate but derived from learned experiences; since common sense which I refer to as reasoned judgment requires analysis, then reasoned judgment must be partly innate.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2002
“The number of paths and roads to one’s planned destination are innumerable but distinct from one another; some take longer and create an arduous journey. All missions require a plan.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1976
“I am eternally grateful to those friends and others who gave me more than I could give to them. Memories of them are etched in my heart and will remain there forever.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1980
“When one evaluates the best possible choice, we need to assess how the decision will affect others, including family, associates in the workplace and friends. Sometimes others outweigh the value of a choice that benefits our self-interest the most.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2007
“Confidence is a whisper, decisiveness is a calm tone, arrogance is a scream, and aggression is a buddy nose; one’s demeanor will describe the scene.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1979
“If you do not have knowledge or experience of what’s in the box, then you can’t think out-of-the-box; one cannot consider an alteration or alternative without knowledge of the subject or profession.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1982
“The environment around us is constantly changing, including innovations, friends, employment and moving to a different location; those who accept and excel at adaptation have smoother transitions, while others struggle.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2016
“For the most part, we are the determinate factor for the consequences of our life. The belief others should add importance and statute to our life is infantile and a sign of weakness. The strong create meaning and purpose for themselves.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2009
“One changes their beliefs numerous times over the course of a lifetime; even those they defended and supported for years.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2007
“Your conscience is the final arbiter of whether you have been right or wrong.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2003