“Each day I rise with a hollow heart and gaze across the bed and wonder where you are and who you are with. I still love you but learned to live in peace.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1983
“If something or someone makes you happy and brings joy to your life, it does not have to make sense to anyone else.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1978
“Never reveal your dark moments to anyone, for what people do not know cannot be utilized to destroy you. By nature, people are envious and jealous; and will attempt to bring you down. Silence reveals nothing.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1974
“Uncertainty is the equivalent of a predator waiting in the shadows and pounces upon us when least expected. Frequently, we are aware of pending uncertainty, such as, waiting for the results; of a test, a pending loan application, a promotion or potential employment, and the fact uncertainty will be present for our entire life.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1990
“In college the professor gives you an assignment, you study and are given a test to determine what you have learned. In life, you are first tested and then you learn.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1983
“When I hear a certain song playing in the background, I think of you and a vision of your face, pervades my soul. When the second song plays, your sweet fragrance fills the air around me. The third song and her gentle hand caresses my face and tingles my body that is covered with goosebumps. At the fourth song, I gently glide to the radio and turn it off. There is no sense roaming in the darkened marred past. And I have adjusted to living without her.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2009
“Determination, knowledge, and wisdom work in collaboration; determination dominates, for without persistence, knowledge and wisdom never attain their full potential.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1979
“We all gaze back into our past, to recall fond memories; the mistakes and errors we made, so we shall not repeat them in the present or the future.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1977
“Quality leadership always contains a vision for the organization that displays the transition from the present into the future. The transition shall include plans of action and goals to reach the vision.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1984
“Sometimes defining friendship can be simple. If your heart still aches after someone has passed, then you were a true and close friend. They may have physically left this world, but they still walk among us in our hearts.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2018
“As humans, it is likely we shall periodically deviate from virtue as temptation continually lurks in the shadows and taunts us to succumb. Most digressions are minor and do not disrupt our lives unless we decide to live two of them.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1988
“Some doors slammed in your face need to be glued and nailed shut so they can never be reopened.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1983
“Deficient discipline can impede every other asset one may possess, including education, intelligence, and experience.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1993
“Some friends are more significant and important than other friends. A special friend can often change your life for the better. You will know when this special person enters your life because of the respect you have for them. They will never lie or set you aside for someone or something else. You will have undying trust in this person that any words spoken will never find another ear. They always returned calls at the earliest possible time. They will check in often to see what is going on in your life and just talk. Your accomplishments will be applauded with praise and losses will never be repeated. This friend has you melted within their heart as you do theirs. When you find such a person be sure to return the love and understand they have gifted you and your life.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1983
“The most significant aspect of any long-term sustained relationship is trust; not even love is stronger; hence, you can still love someone without trust because of history, attachment, and family. But the type of love is different.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 2004
“On one’s path through life, it shall be nearly impossible to find and acquire complete virtue. Aristotle listed his twelve virtues and other philosophers have noted even more personality traits to describe the virtuous. But one, morality jumps off the page which within itself is defined distinctively different between various religious, social value systems and nationalities. Morality is defined by our conscience, not the dictionary.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1996
“No one has gone through life without acquiring scars and bruises. Some wounds are hidden inside us and only we can feel. They are badges of our day-to-day struggle to learn and survive.” Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) 1981