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Warren Thomas Farrell est un auteur, sociologue et activiste américain s'intéressant aux problématiques du sexisme, de la condition féminine et de la condition masculine.

Initialement féministe et membre de la National Organization for Women , Warren Farrell a quitté le mouvement dans les années 70 et s'est progressivement consacré à la promotion de problématiques liées à la condition masculine, au couple et à la famille en général au travers d'une série de livres mêlant sociologie, psychologie et économie.

Il s'est aussi impliqué en politique aux États-Unis dans le cadre des élections présidentielles de 2016. Wikipedia  

✵ 26. juin 1943
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Warren Farrell: Citations en anglais

“Divorce laws have given women economic support after divorce; no laws have given men emotional support after divorce. Men are required to continue their obligations to their exes in the form of alimony or child support; women are not required to continue their obligation to their exes in the form of homemaking or nurturing.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“If a man ignoring a woman’s verbal “no” is committing date rape, then a woman who says “no” with her verbal language but “yes” with her body language is committing date fraud. And a woman who continues to be sexual even after she says “no” is committing date lying.”

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Warren Farrell livre The Myth of Male Power

p 314.
The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband

“Many women are discovering that the motherhood instinct implies a responsibility to be certain children have dads -- everyday, not far away; and some are aware that economic independence requires not holding on to her child as if it were her job.”

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Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 239.

“We had affirmative action programs to help women help themselves economically. Is it now time for affirmative action programs to do for men’s feelings what the government did for women’s economics?”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“In the future, women will increasingly want nurturer-connectors, since part of what he will be nurturing is her ability to protect herself.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“During what years should a child be introduced to better ways of giving and receiving criticisms – to what I call “relationship language”? Before school age. The best teacher? Parents.”

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Source: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 36.

“The best-selling magazines to men are Playboy and Penthouse. These represent men’s primary fantasy: access to as many beautiful women as desired without risk of rejection. The best-selling magazines to women are Better Homes and Gardens and Family Circle, representing the female primary fantasy: better homes and gardens and a family circle.”

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Source: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. 18.

“The Industrial Revolution, then, took men’s occasional absence from home -- previously needed only in wartime and for hunting -- and made it the norm. This increasing division of labor magnified the division of men’s and women’s interests. It magnified the belief in the maternal instinct and the reality of the distant father. Prior to industrialization, divorces usually led to children living with dads. Not after.”

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Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 88.

“If the law tries to legislate our “yeses” and “noes” it will produce “the straitjacket generation” – a generation afraid to flirt, fearful of finding its love notes in a court suit. Date rape legislation will force suitors and courting to give way to courts and suing.”

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Warren Farrell livre The Myth of Male Power

Source: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 340.

“Just as the Depression left a generation of dads feeling they never had enough money, so father deprivation is leaving a generation of sons and daughters with different psychic wounds.”

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Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 121.

“When a parent denies a child its “parent time,” that parent is denying the child its child support -- its psychological child support.”

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Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 187.

“In more than thirty years of conducting workshops, no one has ever said to me, “Warren, I want a divorce – my partner understands me.””

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Source: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 15.

“A week after you read this chapter, misandry will become apparent in commercials, in films, in everyday conversations. But the bias that is hardest to see is the bias we share.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“Both parents’ rights must be in balance so children can grow up with a balance between both parents.”

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Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 126.

“Irony: While we increasingly hold people more responsible if they drink and drive, we hold women less responsible if they drink and have sex.”

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Warren Farrell livre The Myth of Male Power

Source: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 320.

“I could be a much better role model by sharing more openly with him my shadow side, my faults, my mistakes, asking him to be my teacher rather than being his.”

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Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 120.

“The Female Western is the battle between the good and evil methods of getting the men who perform best.”

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Source: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. 73.

“In order to connect and nurture, it is not just helpful to be in touch with feelings, it is necessary. So men’s first job – their next evolutionary strategy – involves being in touch with their feelings.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“Gay sex meant two hours of sexual pleasure in exchange for two hours of sexual pleasure. Heterosexual sex meant two hours of sexual pleasure in exchange for a lifetime of responsibility. Heterosexuality was a bad deal! The fear behind homophobia was that no one would be providing for the next generation. Everybody would be having fun. Thus fun became a sign of immaturity; hedonism in many forms became illegal.”

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Warren Farrell livre The Myth of Male Power

Source: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part II: The Glass Cellars of the disposable sex, p. 208.

“Teaching children to debate without teaching children to listen is divorce training.”

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Source: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 36.

“When either sex suppresses the expression of feelings, it’s almost always b/c they don’t feel there is a safe environment to express them.”

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Source: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 16.

“ITEM: The Mike Tyson trial. The hotel in which the jury is sequestered goes ablaze. Two firefighters die saving its occupants. The trial of Mike Tyson made us increasingly aware of men-as-rapists. The firefighters' deaths did not make us increasingly aware of men-as-saviors. We were more aware of one man doing harm than of two men saving…”

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Warren Farrell livre The Myth of Male Power

Source: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part 1: The Myth of Male Power, p. 36.

“By the mid-’90s, the anger at men had become so palpable that even sedate publications like The Economist were characterizing women’s vs. men’s workload as “A woman’s work is never done; a man is drunk from sun to sun.””

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“After a conflict, women are not only more likely to turn to other womenfriends for support, but are nine times more likely to be with their children should conflict become divorce.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“When I was doing a book tour in Japan for Why Men Are The Way They Are, I was told of an institution called the snack. The snack works like this: A man is coming home from work, and has had a bad day. He doesn’t feel that his wife wants to hear about it, so he pays between $50 and $80 for a snack —a sandwich and a drink and an attractive woman who will listen empathetically to him—sort of a beautiful psychologist with refreshments. No men need apply.”

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Source: Why Men Earn More (2005), p. 198.

“The most unacknowledged spending expectation among women is the amount of time spent by single mothers caring for children, not only physically, but psychologically. It is my feeling that only a small percentage of a mother’s time is normally compensated for by child support, given what a woman could make adding these hours to workforce hours… It is why women who have never been married and never had children earn so much more in the workplace than women who have had children.”

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Source: Why Men Earn More (2005), p. 222.

“Parade magazine announces that 40 million Soviet men were killed between 1914 and 1945. The magazine’s headline reads ‘Short End of the Stick’. Because men died? No. The women were seen as getting the short end of the stick because they were stuck with factory and street-cleaner positions the men weren’t around to do.”

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Warren Farrell livre The Myth of Male Power

Source: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part II: The Glass Cellars of the disposable sex, p. 145.

“Only when a woman shares male risks can she really begin to understand men.”

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Source: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. 355.

“The best way to use these lists to replace anger with love in real life is to nurture each other by doing for your partner what your partner normally does for you.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“Both sexes had an unconscious investment in keeping men from expressing feelings of fear and vulnerability.”

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