hana77

@hana77, member from Feb. 18, 2020
Erich Fromm photo

“Most people pretend that they are happy, even to themselves because if you are unhappy, you are considered a failure. So you must wear the mask of being satisfied or happy because otherwise you lose credit on the market, you’re no longer a normal person or a capable person.”

Erich Fromm (1900–1980) German social psychologist and psychoanalyst

Kontext:
Most people pretend that they are happy, even to themselves because if you are unhappy, you are considered a failure. So you must wear the mask of being satisfied or happy because otherwise you lose credit on the market, you’re no longer a normal person or a capable person. But you just have to look at people. You only have to see how behind the mask there is unrest, irritability, anger, depression, insomnia, unhappiness, what the french called “malaise”: already at the outset of the century one spoke of “malaise of the century”. This is what Freud called “the unease in culture”. But it’s not the unease in culture, it’s the unease in bourgeois society that turns people into workhorses and [ignores] all that is important: the ability to love, to be there for oneself and others, to think, not to be a tool for the economy, but the end of all economic activity. That is what makes people the way they are.

I think it’s a common fiction that people share, that the modern person is happy. But this isn’t only my observation, it can be found in a range of people, and you only need to open your eyes yourself and not be deceived by appearances.
Source: Rozhovor viz https://www.instagram.com/p/DHUAWP6uga7/

Erich Fromm photo

“"Normal" people are the sickest.”

Erich Fromm (1900–1980) German social psychologist and psychoanalyst

Kontext:
Normal people are the sickest, and sick people are the healthiest. That may sound witty or perhaps exaggerated, but I’m quite serious, it’s not just an amusing formula. The sick person reveals that certain human things aren’t yet so suppressed, that they come into conflict with the cultural patterns, and create symptoms through this friction. The symptom, like pain, is only an indication that something is wrong. One is lucky to have a symptom. The symptom, like pain, is only an indication that something is wrong. One is lucky to have a symptom. One is lucky to be in pain when something is wrong. We know if you did not feel pain, you’d be in a very dangerous situation. But a great many normal people have adapted so much that they have abandoned everything that is their own. They’ve become so alienated, so much instruments and robotic, that they no longer sense conflict at all. That is, their actual feeling, love, and hate are so much repressed or so much atrophied that they give the image of a chronic mild schizophrenia.
Source: Rozhovor viz https://www.instagram.com/p/DHB6yIZM_HN/

Rainer Maria Rilke photo
Ram Dass photo
Ram Dass photo

“Healing does not mean going back to the way things were before, but rather allowing what is now to move us closer to God.”

Ram Dass (1931–2019) American contemporary spiritual teacher and the author of the 1971 book Be Here Now
Ram Dass photo

“We're fascinated by the words--but where we meet is in the silence behind them.”

Ram Dass (1931–2019) American contemporary spiritual teacher and the author of the 1971 book Be Here Now
Rainer Maria Rilke photo
Rainer Maria Rilke photo
Rumi photo
Susan Sontag photo

“My emotional life: dialectic between craving for privacy and need to submerge myself in a passionate relationship to another.”

Susan Sontag (1933–2004) American writer and filmmaker, professor, and activist

Source: Reborn: Journals and Notebooks, 1947-1963

Zora Neale Hurston photo

“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”

Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937), Ch. 3, p. 21.

Friedrich Nietzsche photo

“To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.”

Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
Rumi photo
Fyodor Dostoyevsky photo

“To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in someone else's.”

Source: Crime and Punishment (Zločin a trest)

Alain de Botton photo

“Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable.”

Banksy pseudonymous England-based graffiti artist, political activist, and painter
Fyodor Dostoyevsky photo

“Love life more than the meaning of it.”

Source: The Brothers Karamazov (Bratři Karamazovi)

Stephen Hawking photo

“Quiet people have the loudest minds.”

Stephen Hawking (1942–2018) British theoretical physicist, cosmologist, and author
Rainer Maria Rilke photo

“Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final.”

Rainer Maria Rilke (1875–1926) Austrian poet and writer

from poem Go to the Limits of Your Longing.

Appears in movie Jojo Rabbit.
Variant: Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final